Comments on: How To Be A Chocolate Coated, Sprinkle Covered, Irresistible Social Supermagnet

By: Jonny

Jonny — Tue, 18 May 2010 19:19:33 +0000

Hi Rob,

Nothing wrong with a bit of Borat from time to time.

By: Rob L.

Rob L. — Tue, 18 May 2010 15:54:16 +0000

Smiling is key and they really are contagious. These five things will absolutely transform the way you are perceived in a social situation.

And all the talk of magnets brings borat to mind…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xrpPbui37Dk&NR=1

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By: Jonny

Jonny — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 18:58:42 +0000

Hi Eliane,

Welcome to the site. I hope I am not tempting you too much.

By: Eliane

Eliane — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 13:57:37 +0000

jee that brownie looks delicious! and I’m a raw foodie, so that’s saying something. nice article

By: Jonny

Jonny — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 09:10:57 +0000

Hi Rose,

Thanks for the comment and welcome to the site. Great question and this is one that many people ask.

It really depends on what you mean by attractive, being traditionally attractive in build and face help to make the initial contact with someone, no doubt that is true but beyond that first interaction it is the inner beauty that shines through. I know from personal experience that almost always an average looking guy who smiles and is engaging will be far more attractive then a good looking model that is impersonal and defensive.

Hope that helps,

By: Rose

Rose — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 06:02:01 +0000

Doesn’t being attractive help?

By: Jonny

Jonny — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 14:35:34 +0000

Hi Tim,

Drat, can’t believe I forgot such an obvious one as eye contact. Thanks for pulling it up.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:23:52 +0000

Jonny, a truly inspiring post. Hard to get the tone right on such a subject, without sounding like a bell, but you did it with style and panache.

My one addition would be good eye-contact. “Good” in as much as too much direct eye contact from someone you have just met can be a little freaky, but definite direct eye contact helps create a genuine connection. The verbal parallel, which you already point out, is using a person’s name. Both actions make them understand that you have genuinely registered them and are taking the time to connect. Helping people feel good is a sure way to get them to like you.

Cheers,
Tim

By: Jonny

Jonny — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 09:08:19 +0000

Earl I like it man, you dark mysterious stranger