
Describing blogging to someone who isn’t a blogger is much like trying to explain String Theory to a 4 year old using a carrot and a half deflated balloon. Lets just say its a tough sell to say the least.
Posted from an internet cafe in Pattaya, Thailand
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Why Read.
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If you are a blogger you are going to want to read this before reaching for the hand gun. Everyone has a “How to be successful at blogging post” and so this is mine – but with a twist. For those of you who are not bloggers it is worth reading the section on “Removing Luck from the Equation”
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Explanation of a Blog
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Typing “What is blogging?” returns 51,400,000 results from google. Obviously it seems that some people have decided that, contrary to popular belief, string theory is in fact, best taught with a carrot.
“How to blog Successfully” returns 40,900,000 results and we can therefore conclude not only do one or two people know what blogging is, a fair few seem to know how to be successful at it as well. However I find it hard to believe that over 40 million people have financially successful blogs.
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I managed to get through the first few pages of google before wanting to shoot myself in the head and so have decided to advocate a slightly different take on success for blogging.
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For those of you interested, the top three “tips” from around the combined wisdom of the web appear to be:
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1. Have a Personality:
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There are millions of other blogs out there so the main competitive advantage you have is your personal touch and writing style.
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2. Create Posts of Value:
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Peoples attentions spans and availability of free time is forever in short supply and thus you must provide a compelling reason for a person to keep returning to your blog.
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3. Get involved in community:
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Community is key to gaining peoples interest and getting them involved in your blog in order to keep their readership.
All good stuff by and large, but nothing really that isn’t just common sense. I would add that, like most things in life, luck has an extremely large part to play in the success of a blog. You could be Gods gift to blogging as a writer, have regular posts of incredible value and be spending hours a day in the blogosphere community but without a bit of luck you still might not get far, and unfortunately the odds are stacked against you right now.
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Luck, it seems, is the enemy. So lets look at a way of tactfully removing the dirty blighter that is luck from the equation in order to ensure success.
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Removing Luck from the Equation
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There is an incredible amount of talent out there; a depressing wealth of genius. It is a sobering thought to realise that wherever your gifts lie, chances are there will be thousands of people who are much better than you. Now I am not saying this to depress you or even that this is necessarily a bad thing. It is in fact quite freeing…it can give you a new perspective on why you do things…why you do anything.
I have only recently come to realise just how much talent there is around since starting this website – especially in the Blogosphere…and to be honest, one would have to be mad not to feel a little intimidated. I had read blog sites such as “Zen Habits”, “The Four Hour Workweek” and “The Art of Manliness” and have watched them find considerable success. All credit to the guys; they each have excellent sites and deserve the success they receive.
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What was surprising however, at least to me, was the shear number of other sites that are out there which are also of an incredibly high standard.
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I kid you not, there are literally hundreds and hundreds of high quality blog sites around, just that I have seen, each with excellent content and dedicated writers, all competing for their readers time. Websites of this quality take time, quite a lot of it and so the question has to be; why do people do it and what do they get out of it.
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Why do anything?
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Simple question but important. Why do we do anything in life? Without going into the bigger question of “What is the meaning of this thing called life?” let us look at this in terms of how to be successful.
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Before embarking on anything you need to be sure you know why it is you are doing it and what the main driving force behind doing it is.
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That is the only sure way to be truly successful in whatever you endeavor to do.
Bloggers have many reasons for spending their time writing articles and looking after their site; to make money, as a form of self expression, to improve their skills, to network, to be appreciated, to feel important, to be praised etc. These are all valid reasons for starting and investing time into a blog, as long as the individual is sure on what they wish to get out of that investment. It is an old cliché that you have to be passionate about what you do and then the success will come. By and large I agree with this but it depends on what you mean by “success”
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Starting a blog these days with the sole goal of having a huge readership and thus making substantial money from it is not a recipe for success.
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This is a very competitive marketplace filled with high quality and well established blogs. It is probably best akin to starting a fashion line with the aim of competing with companies such as Nike or Boss. It’s a nice goal but chances are, it is not going to happen. If you want to make money from your blog it is probably best to find a niche market that very few blogs are in and service that. I however, would not suggest this unless you are very passionate about the niche and it will benefit you outside of financial gain and readership gain. If however, you want to see “success” from your blog, well then, this is another ball game entirely.
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Seeing success in your blog
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Seeing success in your blog will depend on what the personal goals you have set for it are and, like I said, I would suggest you move away from financial and readership size goal.
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Focus on why you want to spend time writing articles, how it will improve you and bring you happiness.
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If you are investing time in reading and commenting on other peoples blogs, ensure it is because you wish to learn and improve yourself and not just to drag more readership to your own blog. I would suggest that better reasons, and thus benchmarks for success, for investing time into your blog would be to focus on things such as:
- Improving your writing and communication skills
- Help clarify your own thoughts, ideas and beliefs by getting them down on paper.
- Learn from reading other blogs and develop your own thoughts and ideas on the topics discussed.
- Advance your knowledge of anything your interested in.
- Enjoy joining into the conversation in the blogosphere
- Network
If you focus on the wrong reasons for starting a blog, like financial and readership success, ultimately the likelihood is that you will be very disappointed.
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Instead why not focus on the reasons for self improvement and enjoyment – this way you will be guaranteed to find success. Then, if financial and readership success come, it is an added bonus.
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If you are a blogger, good luck with your blog. Have fun and I wish you success. Leave a comment below if you wish on the success you have found from your blog or are planning to achieve – don’t worry about bigging yourself up, I invite it. If you are not you can still apply the above thoughts to your life.
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Ensure you know why you are investing time into anything. If you do not find enjoyment or self improvement from it then I would suggest that, perhaps, you have the wrong reasons for doing it and you would be happier investing your time elsewhere.











24 Comments
I agree with this totally Jonny. Having another reason for doing it other than making money etc. give you a sort of back up plan. being that if for some reason you dont make a million $$ off it, you have by no means wasted your time.
I think thats why in the end, some blogs that “talk” through their own process of learning something often do so well, because monitising and readership is secondary to their forced learning of the topic.
Watch out for those bars in Pattaya mate
You are right, those that set out to improve themselves through their blogs will always come out on top regardless of the readership or monetary successes.
Lol, I’m watching out for the bars.
Hey, Jonny.

Nice blog. And yeah i won’t be shooting myself after reading this
And even i agree that blogging is not for only monetizing because there’s a lot more to it.
Anyways enjoy your trip and beware of the ladyboys
PaX
http://inspirationalpost.com/simplicity-revisited
Hi Pax, thanks for the comment and I will definitely keep an eye out. Btw, how did you get that wicked tag cloud animation going?
I’m very pleased of what you have expressed here. It only show your true purpose in blogging. You are one of those successful blogger who does not blog for financial rewards but for the purpose of art and expression. Wait for me at the end of the finish line ok? The most important element of every success is to be yourself.
Walter, thank you for your kind words but I must correct you for I am sure it is I that will have to do the catching up. I am just trying to “Unleash my true capacity” which by the way was an excellent article.
Good post! I just recently started my blog (currently moving to a new host) and I’ve been reading a lot of the “how to blog successfully” material. I have to say that yours is truly a fresh take. I agree that huge success is always at least partially luck. No matter how good you are at something, it always takes a bit of luck to make it big.
Obviously, I’d like to have a lot of readers at some point, when my blog has grown a bit, but my main reasons for blogging are almost exactly what you listed: Improving my writing skills, developing myself, motivating myself to spend more time researching and thinking about things I’m interested in (and then writing about them) etc.
Cheers,
Shane
Hi Shane, thanks for the comment. I’ve been reading through some posts on your blog. You have an analytical testing approach reminiscent of Tim Ferris. Good luck in your explorations, I will keep an eye out for your articles.
Sorry, I must have gotten the input fields mixed up in my comment. Feel free to edit/delete.
Cheers,
Shane
No fear, for some reason my comments coding has gone awry. Will be corrected as soon as I can.
Hey Jonny,
Nice post. I really liked all the tips you had to give in this one. It was very helpful.
You are more that welcome Faizal. All the best with your writing.
Wow, this has given me a fresh perspective on my blogging. Thanks so much.
Hi, thanks for dropping past the site. I checked out your site, looks very professional. Good luck with your writing.
Btw, what coding did you use for your bookmark icons as I would love to use them here on thelifething.com
Interesting thoughts, mate! I started blogging almost three years ago thinking I might make some money out of it. But I found that I really enjoyed blogging for its own sake. Now I write whether anyone reads it or not!
One of my blogs, http://gubernatrix.co.uk is what I would term ‘successful’ but it acts more as a shop window than as a money maker in itself. It has lead to opportunities that I wouldn’t otherwise have had and I derive an immense amount of satisfaction from writing it. Blogging can be part of a much wider enterprise not just an end in itself.
Very good points Sally and I checked out your site, will be taking some of its advice. All the best in your blogging.
Hi,
thanks for the great quality of your blog, every time i come here, i’m amazed.
black hattitude.
Black Hattitude, that is one of the greatest compliments I have received. Thankyou.
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Love the post, i am in the process of putting my personal blog together and your suggestions of focusing on Self improvement and enjoyment are exactly the conclusions I’ve reached. I’ve always kept a journal and this seems like a personal extension for me to share some of my ideas and open a dialog on topics close to my heart. Thanks for your guidence and much success to you.
Hi Gary and thanks for visiting.
A blog is an excellent form of journalling, at least for me anyway as I am useless with pen and paper. Also I know alot of my good mates have attributed alot of their success to starting a blog. You should check out Cody’s blog
You should download “How Teux Keep Small Puppies Alive” as that has a condense section on successful blogging among other goodies.
Hi,
This is actually the first time I’m leaving a comment on a blog!
You’re absolutely right, I’ve spent so much time thinking about my blog (I’m workiing on at the moment) and how to make it ‘work’, that I didn’t spend so much time reading them….And for the last few hours I’ve just allowed myself to get completely distracted and it’s amazing how much great stuff is out there.
It does seem that all successful bloggers recommend to just relax a little bit and enjoy….
Not only am I inspired by others experiences. I realise that I genuinely like reading about other people…it takes some of the focus off me
Hi Dom,
If you blog isn’t first focussed on you and what you are going to get out of it then it is going to be a on uphill struggle. Being successful in blogging, like other things in life takes time and dedication and there is no guarantees, therefore you have to work out a way of winning even when you losing, and using blogging to invest in yourself is one way to do that. Hedge the bets as one might say.
Good luck with your blog and let me know the address as as its live. Thanks for commenting.
Hi Dom,
If you blog isn’t first focussed on you and what you are going to get out of it then it is going to be a on uphill struggle. Being successful in blogging, like other things in life takes time and dedication and there is no guarantees, therefore you have to work out a way of winning even when you losing, and using blogging to invest in yourself is one way to do that. Hedge the bets as one might say.
Good luck with your blog and let me know the address as as its live. Thanks for commenting.